For those of you who read my blog and take the time to understand what this work is for me, this post will come as no surprise. I am a Professional Dominatrix and have been since 2018. I launched my website in 2020 and most of my regulars came from my first year of domination. True story. They are still with me today. Why do clients become regulars here at the Lighthouse and why have they followed me from my first dungeon location to where I'm at now and why can I turn down a

It is late and I've just arrived home from a party. One of the Kinky parties that I love so much and hold so dear. I took the long way home on purpose. It gives me time to think. Think, I do. I began reminiscing on my first experience in a Kink community house here in Salt Lake City. How I wrestled a boy in a green Starbucks apron. He wore nothing else. How that gift affects me still to this day. I still find it difficult to find boys who will wrestle me in the fashion I desi

Good morning readers, As I am working on sharing more of my personal thoughts here, especially around education. (not just the spicy stories...which are LOVELY by the way) I am caught in some surprising and dare I say non-consensual binds that are part society, part culture and part crisis. Education is my primary Kink modality and in that being the case, the existential quandry today is...BDSM Education. In order to learn and grow as a practitioner, there are two schools of

Throughout my time as a Pro-Domme in Salt Lake City, UT, I have seen so many virgins. Well, virgins to the work and also actual virgins...visit my "Sacrificing a Virgin on Easter Sunday" for those juicy details. Due to this, I've decided to start a more education-based blog series for my eager readers to indulge in so that they don't have to scour the internet or use ai to generate an understanding of these terms. Let's just say I'm "old-fashioned" and believe in story tellin

Well. It is true. Spring has SPRUNG. And so have the boys, toys and other creatures who make all sorts of noise here in Salt Lake City. One of the boys likes to hear about my escapades in the dungeon. My Lighthouse. I don't mind indulging in tales for certain boys who create an atmosphere of sincere interest and sincere care. In sharing a memory of a bygone Spring...I found that I've never shared nor written about this experience. One of many tender experiences in the dungeon

I always do like a menagerie. For those that are closest to me, they know that I have a particular fondness for the Avian kind, the...

What a wonderful feeling as a Domme to find the clients that fit with your style. Part of this particular post is to acknowledge that not...

To my sorrow, my first post didn't publish, so here we Go-Go again... I've been traveling with Sub-Bunny special. This time in Japan for...

Hello to you, the new submissives, servants, slaves or Kink-curious. I'm writing this and dedicating this post to you because frankly I...

This post is dedicated to my Blue Butterfly, a soul of mine who has been a dear friend for nearly a decade. It is very strange how these...

What an unbelievably busy season it has been for me. I had the busiest month in my Domination career and things are just getting started....

Today is a MOST blessed day! As I continue my journey and allow all you readers, voyeurs, curious clients, non-clients and associates...

Hello readers, clients, non-client readers and non-reader clients, plus a few of those pesky ones that come in just to see if my website...

If you imagine seeing me as a direct gateway to magic and wonder beyond what you've imagined in your deepest dreams and perhaps even your...

Ahhhh, the joy of working with one of my constituents in my Lighthouse. This is the thing about running a business for yourself, you get...

Maybe I'll start with you sitting on my couch, the yellow one. If you've been to the Lighthouse, you know what I am talking about. The...

It's interesting being an Ex-Mormon Domme, I will assure you. One of the things that is heavily requested is a religious experience and I...

To you beautiful creatures that delight and desire this world with beauty, grace and compassion. You are the strength that the mountains...

Hello to all my darling submissives who read religiously (no pun intended). My heart indeed goes to you all as you've been so good to me...

I'm back from Europe and back to work here in the Salt Lake Valley. Turns out that I have a burning desire to find even more submissives...